Thursday, May 18, 2006

The Dilema

ALright so here's the dilema. I have a job I like, I sorta work for myself, working with another person I've worked with for umm about 9 years if you add it all up. I have this need, to get out of my town,( move out of mom and dads place) start a new job, move in with some friends. Im' bored as hell living around here, you have to drive all the time to do anything fun, mountain bike, snowboard, even going grocery shopping isn't easy. Here's the easy part, getting a job, a place to live etc. The hard part would be telling this person I work with that I can't work with them any more( the driving thing, like probably 50 miles round trip at least) He'd be stuck working alone, and probably would have to find someone else to take my place, or he would have to get another job. I love working with the guy, although there is days we dotn' get along, but it's not like I"m telling some big corporation to piss off.. I feel as though I need to move on, change my life, for the better, cause for once I think I know what I want to do. I just dont' want to hurt anybody in the course of doing that. I cant' figure out the best way to do it, maybe just explain it, which I think he would understand. I wouldnt' want to surprise anyone, or leave anyone hanging, without burning bridges so to speak.

3 comments:

:N E M O R E N S I S::. said...

I understand how you feel, and it is incredibly nice of you to consider him. However, you have to do what YOU want and what is best for YOU. If you're ready to move "onwards and upwards" as they say, don't keep yourself where you are just to make sure someone else is set.

And, on a completely selfish note: move closer to us!!

abuser said...

I would just tell him about the same thing you posted here... He will understand, heck I am sure he has been there. Given enough time he can find someone I would hope or maybe he will offer you a raise that would make it worth the trip for ya...

K O M O D O said...

3 words... wor ces ter